Sad things amongst that post...like say, that Harry Miller story would (or should) make anyone think.
Like say, easy for us to bash guys because they had a bad night...who knows what else they have going on? They have plenty though, and, it does not even account for something like Harry Miller had...while that story was pretty tremendous, the best part was when Carson Daly pointed out that they were glad that he was here to tell it, opposed to them telling it about him.
I was at a practice earlier, and, I know that when it ended...one of the guys was going to go out with his family, but, he could not until he and another had completed a project that they had, and, the other was staying after to do some individual things...it was a Saturday...huge game on Sunday...and, guys wanting to do dinner with family before hanging out that night, and, had a project to complete that was due by midnight...but, to us, we just assume that they spend all week preparing for the 2/3 games that they have...some guys have legitimate families of their own for that matter.
Some tough situations that you dealt with...you touched on something so relevant today...there has always been a need in general for acceptance, or, in finding value from it...but, it is far more so the case today and social media has had a significant impact...that whole notion of some letdowns/learning experiences so as to develop some coping skills is accurate, but, sometimes, and for some, they simply can't cope...and, in the younger ones in particular, they don't understand the permanence of some decisions, or, they, as you said, act impulsively.
I admire some of those things that you did...I can't say that I have done the same, but, I have relished coaching or mentoring or just being there for friends of my kids who did not have a male figure or Dad to help them or what not...my wife jokes all of the time about how she can't recognize some kids today that were so little before, but, I know ALL of them...and, I do...as, I remember what it meant to me to have some of those people/coaches, and, I wanted to be like that hopefully for some others because of it.