I think you'd find a group of those who post regularly (or semi-regularly) who would share this sentiment.....plenty of others who don't......to each his own. I'm in the former camp like you.
I think if you could get both of them to be completely candid, CMP and RJ would probably admit it could have been dealt with better.....regardless of the fact that it just wasn't going to work out and without going into accusations about the reasons.
I've resisted the need to revisit this battleground; ultimately, RJ made his bed.....never too soon or too late to learn some life lessons.