my resposne is not for you, it's for others.
The intent to "not-see-race" is indeed theoretically noble and in a race-neutral society will be a huge benefit. But the US is historically, and to this day, is integrally influenced by race. To not see it or acknowledge it, is a willful denial of reality, which is a luxury only affordable to those negatively affected it.
An analogy will be a regular sized person talking about basketball and claiming not to see height. Whether you choose to acknowledge it or not, height is an integral aspect of professional basketball. It just is. Claiming to not see the advantage it confers to those who have it, and the disadvantage it confers to those who don't doesn't make you noble, it makes you willfully ignorant.