I guess the difference between you and me is that I think you can effectively get your message across to an official without being an ass and getting T'd up. I also think that getting T'd up more often than not hurts the team who's coach was being an ass.
Everybody remembers the "Boy, the coach really fired the team up when he got T'd up and they came back and won". They forget all the times the opposite occurs.
Everybody remembers the "Boy, the coach really fired the team up when he got T'd up and they came back and won". They forget all the times the opposite occurs.