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OT - Biggest Concert Regret

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Was thinking about this today while I mowed: what musical act do you regret not seeing the most? This would be someone you could have seen, but didn't for whatever reason, and now you never will be able to, because they are gone.

Mine would be JJ Cale.
 
I had tickets to seen Eric Clapton and Stevie Ray Vaughn on a Monday in 1990 at Alpine Valley and decided to sell my ticket as I was moving to Kansas City the next day and had concert tickets to see Eric Clapton two days later. Long story short, SRV died... The EC concert was really weird. Clapton did not say a word the entire concert, but he did not cancel.
 
Chris Stapleton at the Appalachian Fair. I live in Tennessee, and not many big acts come to the local area. This was before he was big
 
I would've loved to have seen Led Zeppelin in their hay day..........reason being I was too young

.....same for a few other classic rock groups
 
1. Pink Floyd (intact)
2. Seen Eagles several times but regret missing their last in Indy just prior to GF way too early death.
 
Was thinking about this today while I mowed: what musical act do you regret not seeing the most? This would be someone you could have seen, but didn't for whatever reason, and now you never will be able to, because they are gone.

Mine would be JJ Cale.

Might be showing my age, but who is JJ Cale?

Mine would be the Rolling Stones, Steel Wheels tour Fall of '89. A girl I knew had tickets and wasn't going. She offered them too me for free and I declined. That's bugged me for a long time considering one of my bucket lists is to see as many of the long term great rock bands as possible.
 
Might be showing my age, but who is JJ Cale?

Mine would be the Rolling Stones, Steel Wheels tour Fall of '89. A girl I knew had tickets and wasn't going. She offered them too me for free and I declined. That's bugged me for a long time considering one of my bucket lists is to see as many of the long term great rock bands as possible.
JJ was a singer/songwriter/guitarist who had a style that was pretty hard to define, I guess some combination of blues, rockabilly, and country rock? I have seen it described as the "Tulsa Sound".

Most famous for writing and recording "After Midnight", "Cocaine", and "Call me the Breeze", as well as his collaborations with Clapton.

He passed away in 2013. Clapton and Mark Knopfler would be 2 comparisons off the top of my head. By the time I really got into his stuff, he was pretty much done touring.
 
Looking back over 50 years of attending concerts I have no real regrets. Due to the cheap tix for the Victory Varieties concerts at Purdue I saw an incredible amount of talent in the late 60s and early 70s without really having to travel. I'm blessed with a very eclectic taste in music and have seen a wide range of acts. One of the best decisions was to see Simon and Garfunkel on their reunion tour a few years ago. Still had the sound that made them famous so many years earlier. Several that I saw for $3.50 on the first go around I paid much more for in the past 10 years. Three Dog Night and Chicago come to mind. Few ever disappointed me while some surprised. Wouldn't trade the memories for anything.
 
JJ was a singer/songwriter/guitarist who had a style that was pretty hard to define, I guess some combination of blues, rockabilly, and country rock? I have seen it described as the "Tulsa Sound".

Most famous for writing and recording "After Midnight", "Cocaine", and "Call me the Breeze", as well as his collaborations with Clapton.

He passed away in 2013. Clapton and Mark Knopfler would be 2 comparisons off the top of my head. By the time I really got into his stuff, he was pretty much done touring.
There is a tribute album that Clapton put together called The Breeze with a all star group headlining various songs. Oddly my favorite is "Songbird" performed by Willie Nelson. Petty, John Mayer, Knoffler were three of the artists I remember off the top of my head.
 
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Cream - I'm too young to have gone to a concert, so it's not so much a regret as a wish list.
Nirvana - I just always thought they would be around and I missed a couple of chances to see them. definitely regret.
 
Looking back over 50 years of attending concerts I have no real regrets. Due to the cheap tix for the Victory Varieties concerts at Purdue I saw an incredible amount of talent in the late 60s and early 70s without really having to travel. I'm blessed with a very eclectic taste in music and have seen a wide range of acts. One of the best decisions was to see Simon and Garfunkel on their reunion tour a few years ago. Still had the sound that made them famous so many years earlier. Several that I saw for $3.50 on the first go around I paid much more for in the past 10 years. Three Dog Night and Chicago come to mind. Few ever disappointed me while some surprised. Wouldn't trade the memories for anything.

I saw Simon & Garfunkle first time they came to Purdue...was still in H.S then...then also saw 3DN and Chicago a couple years later while a student....Remember sitting high up in Mackey...and if you were simply breathing the air you were sitting High that night in Mackey...lol! Purdue had some great concert series in the early '70's.
But maybe the all time best concert I ever saw was Bob Seger out in Oakland the week before I got married...Wow! What a performer....He and the entire Silver Bullet Band...
 
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I saw Simon & Garfunkle first time they came to Purdue...was still in H.S then...then also saw 3DN and Chicago a couple years later while a student....Remember sitting high up in Mackey...and if you were simply breathing the air you were sitting High that night in Mackey...lol! Purdue had some great concert series in the early '70's.
But maybe the all time best concert I ever saw was Bob Seger out in Oakland the week before I got married...Wow! What a performer....He and the entire Silver Bullet Band...
Saw both 3DN and Chicago at the same time you did since I was freshman in 70. Saw both in the past 3 years at a great venue in Paducah, KY called the Carson Center for the Performing Arts. They look a little older but the sound is still great.
 
JJ was a singer/songwriter/guitarist who had a style that was pretty hard to define, I guess some combination of blues, rockabilly, and country rock? I have seen it described as the "Tulsa Sound".

Most famous for writing and recording "After Midnight", "Cocaine", and "Call me the Breeze", as well as his collaborations with Clapton.

He passed away in 2013. Clapton and Mark Knopfler would be 2 comparisons off the top of my head. By the time I really got into his stuff, he was pretty much done touring.
Saw Clapton a few years back at what is now Klipsch in Indy. Third row back, dead center....great tickets and Clapton was absolutely great.
 
Saw Clapton a few years back at what is now Klipsch in Indy. Third row back, dead center....great tickets and Clapton was absolutely great.
Yes he usually is. I was there with my son. I've seen Clapton in most of his various stages after Cream. I can say about the comment above not saying anything he usually doesn't. All he has ever wanted to do is be a sideman and play his guitar. His autobiography is a fabulous read.
 
Pearl Jam at the Elliot Hall of Music in 1994.
Jethro Tull at Elliot in mid 70's, had tests the next day, they are one of my all time faves. Bowie during his Ziggy Stardust years. The other day I bought a DVD of Bowie done in Dublin from 2003, it's amazing.
 
So who's going to Petty May 13th. As mentioned earlier, it is amazing what ticket prices were for great bands back in the day. I paid dearly for lower pavilion to go see TP and the Heartbreakers and throw in Joe Walsh and you just have to say, I ain't getting any younger and neither are they.
 
So who's going to Petty May 13th. As mentioned earlier, it is amazing what ticket prices were for great bands back in the day. I paid dearly for lower pavilion to go see TP and the Heartbreakers and throw in Joe Walsh and you just have to say, I ain't getting any younger and neither are they.
I like TP alot some people I run in to don't care for him. Saw him last year w/ Steve Winwood opening for him, was a great show. What bothers me about ticket prices are the fees. This past Oct. saw Anderson,Wakeman, and Rabin. I got third row seats at $79 but the fees were $12 a ticket and bought them at box office.
 
Missing my date with Stevie Nicks because of a chemistry final. At least that's what I kept telling myself. ;)
 
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Cream - I'm too young to have gone to a concert, so it's not so much a regret as a wish list.
Nirvana - I just always thought they would be around and I missed a couple of chances to see them. definitely regret.
Nirvana would be #2 on my list. Some buddies saw them at Hara Arena in Dayton circa 1992, and I couldn't make it. They were supposed to headline Lollapalooza in 1994, but then...
 
There is a tribute album that Clapton put together called The Breeze with a all star group headlining various songs. Oddly my favorite is "Songbird" performed by Willie Nelson. Petty, John Mayer, Knoffler were three of the artists I remember off the top of my head.
I'll have to check that out.
 
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Missing my date with Stevie Nicks because of a chemistry final. At least that's what I kept telling myself. ;)
Saw Fleetwood Mac when they had Bob Welch and still prefer some of their earlier work to the later Buckingham/Nicks group. It's pretty much all good though.
 
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I was going to see Nirvana in a small all ages club in 91'. They literally blew up the week before and moved the show to a bigger venue that was 21 and up.

I would of loved to have seen Led Zeppelin in their prime.
 
Muddy Waters at Elliot Hall of Music in 78. To young and stupid as a freshmen and didn't appreciate the blues at the time. My roommate at Cary went and I passed. What a dumbsh!t.
Sometimes we don't know what we've got 'til it's gone. Saw BB King and Glenn Yarbrough at Elliot in 70 or 71. Knew BB was something but didn't realize until many years later just how good Yarbrough really was.
 
Yes he usually is. I was there with my son. I've seen Clapton in most of his various stages after Cream. I can say about the comment above not saying anything he usually doesn't. All he has ever wanted to do is be a sideman and play his guitar. His autobiography is a fabulous read.

I guess I just assumed any person would acknowledge the passing of someone that they had shared a stage with a few days earlier in such tragic circumstances, still... Clapton has been no stranger to tragedy.
 
I guess I just assumed any person would acknowledge the passing of someone that they had shared a stage with a few days earlier in such tragic circumstances, still... Clapton has been no stranger to tragedy.
Clapton did that by touring later with his brother Jimmie. I regret that I was unable to ever see him play but I never got the opportunity. I regret not seeing a number of people that I never had a chance to see. Maybe that is a whole other thread. My top would be Van Morrison.
 
So who's going to Petty May 13th. As mentioned earlier, it is amazing what ticket prices were for great bands back in the day. I paid dearly for lower pavilion to go see TP and the Heartbreakers and throw in Joe Walsh and you just have to say, I ain't getting any younger and neither are they.

I'm going, haven't missed his shows the past 10 years. Saw him at Elliott Hall on his Damn the Torpedo's tour. About 7 years ago, I was in the lower pavilion at Klipsch for his show and saw one of my daughters old boyfriends. He waved for me to follow him so I did. Someone had approached him in the parking lot earlier and had given him front row seats. I got to see about 5 songs from the front row, dead center. As if that wasn't good enough, I turn around and the Irsay's were BEHIND me, a moment of redemption!
 
Definitely Nirvana for me. Having missed them probably makes me appreciate seeing Alice in Chains before Layne Staley died that much more.
 
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