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Fatherlessness - a plaugue on America

BNI, I give you a lot of credit. You come on here and calmly discuss the same topics over and over again with people that talk about your “massah,” refer to you as boy, claim to know your experiences & culture because they played a game of pickup basketball with a couple of black guys, and on and on. Yet you just calmly respond, which you know gets under their skin, and eventually they’ll just start to insult you. You have my respect sir.
Wow that has as much value as throwing a penny in a fountain
 
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That is what I eluded to in one of my earlier responses. Low income whites seem to go under the radar and single white mothers are no different. Not sure if it make sense but at the same single white women are glorified with reality TV shows. I think one is called "16 and Pregnant". But at the same time single black mothers are demonized. Then you have some fools in this forum that want to sterilize them.
Curious as to your take on white unwed mothers knocked up by black guys vs black unwed knocked up by a white dude? Oh I'm sure it happens. Black men prey upon white women with low self esteem and leave the consequences at a far higher rate. Liberals can type until their fingers are blue but percentages and just opening your eyes proves the point. How many biracial kids are a white father and a black mother?
 
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Curious as to your take on white unwed mothers knocked up by black guys vs black unwed knocked up by a white dude? Oh I'm sure it happens. Black men prey upon white women with low self esteem and leave the consequences at a far higher rate. Liberals can type until their fingers are blue but percentages and just opening your eyes proves the point. How many biracial kids are a white father and a black mother?
This topic has sure brought out the worse in you guys. That is one one most ridiculous posts I've heard that black men pray on white women with low self esteem. Your racism was just exposed with that comment. So black men aren't good enough for white women. They have low self esteem if they are with a black man. Sona white woman can't be with a black man under her own accord. That is how I interpret your statement. Probably more bi-racial kids with a black fathers but there are a good number of bi-racial kids with white fathers. Your racist comment is probably the reason why there are less bi-racial kids with white fathers.
 
This topic has sure brought out the worse in you guys. That is one one most ridiculous posts I've heard that black men pray on white women with low self esteem. Your racism was just exposed with that comment. So black men aren't good enough for white women. They have low self esteem if they are with a black man. Sona white woman can't be with a black man under her own accord. That is how I interpret your statement. Probably more bi-racial kids with a black fathers but there are a good number of bi-racial kids with white fathers. Your racist comment is probably the reason why there are less bi-racial kids with white fathers.
But, without getting emotional and only using statistics, I'm guessing 85+% of biracial children has black father/white mother. The white husband/black wife is a very small % of biracial marriages/relationships.
 
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But, without getting emotional and only using statistics, I'm guessing 85+% of biracial children has black father/white mother. The white husband/black wife is a very small % of biracial marriages/relationships.
And usually with much better outcomes. @BNIBoiler is the perfect example of how anything truthful is racism. I dated a white girl w a half black kid, when she was younger she thought she had a big ass and so her thoughts black dudes were on her like flys. I was out with her one night and black MOFO came up and stood on my feet wanting her to dance with him. Likely one of BNI's friends. I dated a mixed girl that was just cool and was never an issue I thought she was latino when I first met . Takes care of her kids , none mine but does well I still talk to her. Ever see a black dude in a strip club licking his fingers sorting ones out? BNI doesnt know half the shit he thinks he does just being black. I was smart enough to let it go but what other dude going to come up stand on your feet messing with your date somewhere but a black guy?
 
But, without getting emotional and only using statistics, I'm guessing 85+% of biracial children has black father/white mother. The white husband/black wife is a very small % of biracial marriages/relationships.

Never happens because black women resent the hell out of white people, since black guys all want white girls.
 
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Once again, you don't put the blame where it belongs. Blacks have the same right to say "NO" as I do or any other white person has. Drug dealer shows up in my area, we as a neighborhood go to the police and talk about it. You could do the same in your neighborhood, but you don't. You choose to blame whitey, the gangs, the government.

It starts with you...one person willing to run the low life bags of shit out or your kids neighborhood. ONE. If you know where the drugs are, or the guns that are illegal, all you gotta' do is report it. No one would even know it was you.

Not doing so is a cop out

They don't care enough about their own neighborhoods to police their own neighborhoods. That's the beginning and end of the problem. The good black men are way outnumbered by the lowlifes in that community. No one wants to set good examples and solve problems, they just split and leave the women and children to their fates. It's a disgrace and no one will talk about it because it's not PC.

The black leadership talks a big game but do nothing to actually make a difference in the end. The problem just gets worse.
 
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Don’t change the subject. How does the black community solve this fatherlessness problem ?
 
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Fellas, fellas, fellas, can’t we all get together and discuss this with a beer at Crays, guides, and bones favorite drinking hole the We Don’t See Color Tittty Bar.
(You guys are a hoot!)
 
Fellas, fellas, fellas, can’t we all get together and discuss this with a beer at Crays, guides, and bones favorite drinking hole the We Don’t See Color Tittty Bar.
(You guys are a hoot!)
You're a hoot because you're afraid to acknowledge a problem for fear that it's not politically correct or might ruffle the feathers of your fellow libs, lefties and dems.
You're so afraid of discussing anything race related that you won't even share whether or not you think this is a big problem in black America.
 
Don’t change the subject. How does the black community solve this fatherlessness problem ?


Bone, it's a problem we all need to be concerned about. As a long time coach, now retired, I was also a mentor to young men as they played for me. We as a society need to rid 0ur communities of drug dealers and gangs. We can do it if all would stick together, but some won't.
 
Bone, it's a problem we all need to be concerned about. As a long time coach, now retired, I was also a mentor to young men as they played for me. We as a society need to rid 0ur communities of drug dealers and gangs. We can do it if all would stick together, but some won't.
You have to solve the problem before it becomes drug dealers and gangs. These kids growing up in fatherless households are the one's becoming drug dealers and gangbangers.
It's too late for them now. You have to start with the next generation of black kids that aren't of child bearing age yet. But, they have to be told by black leadership, black athletes, black entertainers, whoever has the influence, that "Having children before you get married is not acceptable". It has to be stigmatized, discouraged, even penalized by not providing as much govt support..

It's a cultural problem in black society that needs to be changed.
 
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Still waiting for the black leadership of America to tackle this problem head on.

Just this week, another 5 year old was shot and killed in the hood. My money says the child was born to a single mother. In fact, I'll be any amount of money that 99% of the children under 10 killed in Chicago in the last 10 years were born to single moms.
 
bump.
Still waiting for the black leadership of America to tackle this problem head on.

Just this week, another 5 year old was shot and killed in the hood. My money says the child was born to a single mother. In fact, I'll be any amount of money that 99% of the children under 10 killed in Chicago in the last 10 years were born to single moms.
There is reason that you don't raise any horses.

The problem is not with black leadership. The problem is with the people themselves. For decades there have been a program here, a program there with minimal success. Like any other intervention program the individual has to help themselves.
 
The opposite happens. When people are given free housing, food stamps, free medical care, it creates dependency. They then do nothing to help themselves.
Trillions have been spent on these programs since the mid 60's. Poverty should have been eliminated by now. You just explained very simply why it hasn't been and probably never will be.
 
Trillions have been spent on these programs since the mid 60's. Poverty should have been eliminated by now. You just explained very simply why it hasn't been and probably never will be.
As long as good paying companies and jobs leave the US plus companies hiring illegal workers the US poverty will remain.
 
There is reason that you don't raise any horses.

The problem is not with black leadership. The problem is with the people themselves. For decades there have been a program here, a program there with minimal success. Like any other intervention program the individual has to help themselves.
If there were a concerted effort by leadership in the black community, including politicians, clergy, entertainers, athletes, pop culture icons, media figures, black radio, etc, then this problem would get some attention. One person bringing it up once in a while isn't going to do anything. They should be painting in the endzone and wearing it on their uniforms just like the blm messages.

As mentioned previously, if this problem was given the attention libs, dems and blacks give to trying to find racism, then there might be some changes actually occurring. But, they won't address it with any force because of fear of the 'culture'.
 
BLM completely invisible on this topic
Actually, and someone correct me if I'm wrong, in BLM (burn loot murder) charter document, they wanted to change the definition of what was considered a nuclear family. Basically saying, that a wife/husband aren't important or needed.
 
Actually, and someone correct me if I'm wrong, in BLM (burn loot murder) charter document, they wanted to change the definition of what was considered a nuclear family. Basically saying, that a wife/husband aren't important or needed.
Wrong as usual.
 
Wrong as usual.
"We disrupt the Western-prescribed nuclear family structure requirement by supporting each other as extended families and ‘villages’ that collectively care for one another, especially our children, to the degree that mothers, parents, and children are comfortable," it says on the page titled "What we believe."

What is hilariously ironic, and perhaps a little sad, but ironic none-the-less, is that there's no mention of "Fathers" in that BLM statement (I'm surprised they don't list 'auntie' and 'grammy")
 
Even BLM says anyone can identify as black. Not sure what sexual orientation has to do with race...but whatever.

Black Lives Matter "is focused on improving life outcomes and opportunities for Black-identifying people in the United States, regardless of sexual orientation," said Georgetown University government professor Jamil Scott, whose specialties include race and ethnicity in politics.
 
As long as good paying companies and jobs leave the US plus companies hiring illegal workers the US poverty will remain.
There are jobs literally everywhere. People have to have the motivation. Dependency on gov't kills that. That said, I would raise the minimum to $15 and reduce welfare benefits.
 
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