Yes quality of life is significantly better in those three cities. Good restaurants, Fayetteville is in a pretty area, Manhattan even has a zoo and aquarium I think, etc. unless the coaches wives are attached at the hip with their husbands going to team events, and if they have kids, it’s not the most enjoyable way to spend millions. The wives spend a lot of time alone with their husbands our recruiting and doing events. I can hardly blame them for not wanting to be homebodies.
I do think West Lafayette has gotten better with the new provenance district, trails, and what they did to state street. We dodged a bullet with butch jones but his wife pretty much told him she would not live in Lafayette area.
Shortly after paint started coaching for us, I met his mom at a festival in Chicago she was working (she worked for an airlines). I asked her if paint lived in west Lafayette thinking if I was making millions I might get some land outside of town or even live up in the northwest burbs of Indy. She laughed at me and said of course you think he lives in New York or something? He got divorced shortly after. Brohms wife moved back down to Louisville.
I know of several Purdue professors who live in zionsville area and commute and even a couple higher ups that live in Chicago and drive down their super luxury cars and stay in a hotel 2-3 nights a week.
I just think it’s tough to be as successful and wealthy as a big ten coach and live in west lafayette