Prayers....from friends, family, and myself...are what got me through the 9 months my late wife battled brain cancer. I found this a long time ago, and it's helped me through my loss of parents and my wife. I pray that it helps you and may you share it with her children. Prayers for you and your family will be said for days to come, because those of us on here may argue, there's a huge support group when one is in need.
"Death is nothing at all. I have only slipped away into the next room. I am I, and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, that we still are. Call me by my old familiar name; speak to me in the easy way, which you always used. Put no difference in your tone; wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Pray, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was, let it be spoken without effect without the trace of a shadow on it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was; there is unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just round the corner. All is well."
Henry Scott Holland