My son, who ended-up playing mid-major D1, was on an AAU team coached by a dad with twins on the team as well as three other players from their HS. It was a good team and my son benefited a lot, but he sat the bench when the twins played a lot when we had a solid lead. Just give him a chance. If he fails, so be it, but let's see if he fails!! My thoughts during the season.It's been a frustrating season so far. When your kid/grandkid isn't getting a chance during a frustrating season it's even harder to stomach.