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This is what "tolerance" really means re: same-sex marriage

Re: I'll say it again

Again, that isn't the law. You're arguing it will be the law. But that isn't the law, as it presently stands. The second circuit is merely persuasive authority in Idaho.
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What?

I also cited the 9th Circuit, which is BINDING authority in Idaho.

Let me type it again:

Following that, the 9th Circuit followed the 2nd Circuit's reasoning:

"Windsor review is not rational basis review. In its words and its deed, Windsor
established a level of scrutiny for classifications based on sexual
orientation that is unquestionably higher than rational basis review. In
other words, Windsor requires that heightened scrutiny be applied to equal protection claims involving sexual orientation."

See, 9th Circuit, heightened scrutiny for sexual orientation, just like gender. Idaho is in the 9th Circuit.

If you want the case it's SmithKline Beecham Corp. v. Abbott Laboratories
Are we done now or do you still not think it the law?


This post was edited on 10/21 6:53 PM by qazplm
 
Re: That's not even remotely true

Why don't I have a right to murder? Who decided this?

Again, it should be self-evidently clear.

Please provide a good example of segregation by a public company.

Every single company who segregates their bathrooms by gender. Can you really not think of simple, common sense examples like this?
 
I have never understood why this is a religious argument! It is all about choice in conduct and behavior and what one wants to accept. If society changes it's view, so be it. If I come into a restaurant being loud and profane, you can be asked to leave. However, if it is just skin color etc, that is another issue. If you are a known shoplifter (again conduct and behavior-a choice) you can be asked to refrain from coming into that shop. If it is because you a male or female, that is another issue. No shirt, no shoes, no service-that is behavior and conduct. If I don't like your conduct and behavior, I don't want to serve you.
 
Originally posted by threeeputtt:

I have never understood why this is a religious argument! It is all about choice in conduct and behavior and what one wants to accept. If society changes it's view, so be it. If I come into a restaurant being loud and profane, you can be asked to leave. However, if it is just skin color etc, that is another issue. If you are a known shoplifter (again conduct and behavior-a choice) you can be asked to refrain from coming into that shop. If it is because you a male or female, that is another issue. No shirt, no shoes, no service-that is behavior and conduct. If I don't like your conduct and behavior, I don't want to serve you.
Simple: they are born that way, or so we are told.
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Originally posted by gr8indoorsman:

Originally posted by threeeputtt:


I have never understood why this is a religious argument! It is all about choice in conduct and behavior and what one wants to accept. If society changes it's view, so be it. If I come into a restaurant being loud and profane, you can be asked to leave. However, if it is just skin color etc, that is another issue. If you are a known shoplifter (again conduct and behavior-a choice) you can be asked to refrain from coming into that shop. If it is because you a male or female, that is another issue. No shirt, no shoes, no service-that is behavior and conduct. If I don't like your conduct and behavior, I don't want to serve you.
Simple: they are born that way, or so we are told.

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So, you are saying we have no choices in our behavior? I presume there are voluminous AMA articles that I haven't been able to find much like the alcoholic debate? Just asking?
 
Re: then, again, it's real simple

Is this man acceptable to your ministry? He opens a drive-thru "chapel" across the street from the town courthouse. He sells packages that include him filing all of the paperwork for you. You can choose from the rootiin'-tootin' cowboy room or the Victorian fainting couch room. A warning though, they are so small only 5-7 people can be in them. My favorite, this minister offers "after hours" marriages - for a higher fee of course. One stop shopping, all on traditional marriage website. More akin to a brothel than a church.

This isn't directed at you I just find hypocrisy in the traditional marriage crowd defending the commercialization of something that is supposedly so sacred that it can't be tarnished with gays or lesbians. The foundation of our blessed nation can be bought with a Visa card at 2:30 AM.

For all, here is an interesting twist. The Hitching Post owner doesn't even know the firm allegedly representing them. Do we have a law firm stirring up controversy where there is none? Is someone fishing? Also of note, it seems interesting that The Hitching post changed the wording on their website days before the story went viral.

We also perform wedding ceremonies of other faiths as well as civil weddings.

Became...

The Hitching Post specializes in small, short, intimate, and private
weddings for couples who desire a traditional Christian wedding
ceremony.




Interesting developments...
 
Re: What?

Originally posted by qazplm:
Just go ahead and say it: I was wrong.
It's not a relevant case. What's most amusing, here, is that you're arguing what you think the law should be, not what it is.

I'm on the side of gay rights. But making bad arguments does nothing to help the cause.
 
Re: then, again, it's real simple

Originally posted by pastorjoeboggs:

Originally posted by qazplm:
if you are doing this as religion, than do what actual religions do, do it for non-profit. Then you get the same protections a church gets to only marry, religiously, those folks you want to.

but you aren't doing it as a religion, you are doing it as a business with a civil component to it. And there is no evidence that these folks are limiting it to their religion, whatever sect they are a part of.
Part of my profession as a minister is the performing of wedding ceremonies. Almost always I get paid for this service. It is that way for every minister I know. Some set the rates for a wedding, others simply accept whatever is offered - but all get compensated for doing so.

If your logic is as simple as you are claiming, then it is not a leap to suggest that the law mandates that, as long as I am getting paid for doing weddings, I must agree to perform same-sex marriages. Which would leave many ministers in a serious lurch, as one way that ministers can afford to stay at small churches is because of the fees they get from weddings and funerals.
As a minister, you would never be forced to perform same-sex unions. What almost every single person in this thread is missing is that the ministers are VITAL to this case. If it is found that this chapel must perform same sex unions, it is not the current ministers who would be required to perform them. Either the chapel would have to allow outside ministers to perform them within the chapel, or the chapel would have to provide a minister who is willing to perform the union. But, it is the CHAPEL and NOT THE MINISTERS who will be forced to allow the unions. That is why I keep addressing the issue of the type of ministers the chapel employs (and if it is a single, specific type of minister or a spectrum of ministers).

Anyway, you'd be fine, regardless.
 
Re: then, again, it's real simple

Originally posted by ecouch:
Is this man acceptable to your ministry? He opens a drive-thru "chapel" across the street from the town courthouse. He sells packages that include him filing all of the paperwork for you. You can choose from the rootiin'-tootin' cowboy room or the Victorian fainting couch room. A warning though, they are so small only 5-7 people can be in them. My favorite, this minister offers "after hours" marriages - for a higher fee of course. One stop shopping, all on traditional marriage website. More akin to a brothel than a church.

This isn't directed at you I just find hypocrisy in the traditional marriage crowd defending the commercialization of something that is supposedly so sacred that it can't be tarnished with gays or lesbians. The foundation of our blessed nation can be bought with a Visa card at 2:30 AM.

For all, here is an interesting twist. The Hitching Post owner doesn't even know the firm allegedly representing them. Do we have a law firm stirring up controversy where there is none? Is someone fishing? Also of note, it seems interesting that The Hitching post changed the wording on their website days before the story went viral.

We also perform wedding ceremonies of other faiths as well as civil weddings.

Became...

The Hitching Post specializes in small, short, intimate, and private
weddings for couples who desire a traditional Christian wedding
ceremony.
Ah. I hadn't heard/seen that. All I saw was the ambiguous statement below (which doesn't specify what they mean by "Christian"). With that in mind, there is no excuse for this for-profit organization to exclude gay marriages. By offering an array of different types of religious services (to a broad spectrum of religions), they are, effectively, singling out gays as a class of people they refuse to cater to (as opposed to only offering a very specific religious service, etc.). Even using the most basic standards, this wouldn't fly. I'm done with this thread, as that bolded portion renders any further debate pointless.
 
wow

What's amusing is I cite where the 9th Circuit says sexual orientation is treated as a quasi-protected class and first you apparently miss since you only see 2nd Circuit, then when I point it out a second time, you say "it's not a relevant case." You don't know what you are talking about. It's not as if something is a protected class for one thing, and not for another. Once it's a protected class, it's a protected class. So yeah, it's a "relevant" case because it's the circuit establishing that it's a quasi-protected class, the second circuit to do so...for the very state you are arguing there's no state law, by citing not a case, or a statute but a website you looked up.

You clearly don't know what you are talking about, so I'm going to stop wasting my time.
 
there's a difference between

"getting paid" and "for profit."
 
I would be curios to hear what you think could possibly be allowed.

I think what you are saying is, as an example, an enterprising Catholic priest sees a market in Vegas for a Catholics only wedding chapel and starts one up as a for profit business then he would be allowed to exclude gay marriages IF he only preformed Catholic weddings according to Catholic rules/guidelines/traditions...

But doesn't the weddings for profit part change it? If all he is doing is weddings, no baptisms, funerals, masses, novenas, confessions... Then it really isn't a Catholic Church or anything resembling one and if he is doing all of those then it's a church I would think.
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wow

The ninth circuit case relates to government actions. And yes, there is a difference. The worst part about you is that you're so arrogant even when you're getting stomped.
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Re: That's not even remotely true

I don't think it is self-evident given how many legal ways there are to kill someone legally. It is still decided by someone.

I asked you to describe a situation where a public business is allowed to segregate against Jews or Blacks. You clearly can't name one and instead you had to jump to gender because I didn't specifically state it that time.
 
sigh

again, if a class is protected, it's protected. Thus, it doesn't matter whether it's government or business, once a class makes it to protected, or quasi-protected, the game changes for EVERYONE.
 
charging for something doesn't make it for profit

churches charge for their space all of the time. That doesn't remove their ability to discriminate because they aren't doing it "for profit."

So it's the "for profit" part that matters. Catholic Wedding Chapel in Vegas could refuse to marry gays IF it's set up not as for profit but as a church function.

This situation deals, as you and I and others have noted, with a group that is definitively not a church and definitively not nonprofit.
 
Re: then, again, it's real simple

That is a leap. You'd only run into issues if you were operating a business outside of your not for profit actions. You can still be paid by a not for profit or by doing service for a not for profit.

Even then, if someone feels so strongly that gay marriage is wrong, then just include that as part of all of your ceremonies and you likely have nothing to worry about as most gay couples aren't going to choose a minister who goes into the "homosexuality is a sin" diatribe on their wedding day. Who knows? You may even convince the gay couple that God does not bless this union and they should change their ways!
 
Re: That's not even remotely true

Killing and murdering are not necessarily the same thing.

Yes, the point was to show you that segregation is not automatically bad or good. We as a society need to stop thinking that its automatically bad.
 
Originally posted by threeeputtt:
Originally posted by gr8indoorsman:

Originally posted by threeeputtt:


I have never understood why this is a religious argument! It is all about choice in conduct and behavior and what one wants to accept. If society changes it's view, so be it. If I come into a restaurant being loud and profane, you can be asked to leave. However, if it is just skin color etc, that is another issue. If you are a known shoplifter (again conduct and behavior-a choice) you can be asked to refrain from coming into that shop. If it is because you a male or female, that is another issue. No shirt, no shoes, no service-that is behavior and conduct. If I don't like your conduct and behavior, I don't want to serve you.
Simple: they are born that way, or so we are told.

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So, you are saying we have no choices in our behavior? I presume there are voluminous AMA articles that I haven't been able to find much like the alcoholic debate? Just asking?
Depends on what you believe. I have always believed there is an element of choice, but the protected class advocates want to compare it to race and act as though it is purely genetic.
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"purely" genetic

implies that sexuality is simply a matter of genes or a combo of genes at birth.

It isn't. That's different though then the idea of whether or not it's "a choice."

Environment affects which genetic bits turn on or off too. So a certain environment could turn off or on the right genes that impact where on the Kinsey Scale one falls.

I do not believe that vast majority of people who have interest in the same sex "choose" that interest. Sexual response is an autonomic function. You cannot control who elicits a sexual response in you. It's not physically possible because it's autonomic.

Now obviously you can control how you act on those feelings, but that doesn't change who floats your boat as it were which means it doesn't change your actual sexual orientation (straight, bi, gay, or even asexual).

Additionally, folks are going to choose to be abhorred, risk not going as far in their careers, having family and friends shun them in many cases? For what purpose.

I am sure that there are some folks out there, who are mostly straight, who "choose" to be gay exclusively. Perhaps a woman has spent a lifetime being beaten by the men in her life, has at least some physical attraction to women, and decides, you know what, even though I'm mostly on Team Hetero, I'm tired of getting beat.

Other than that, I have a real hard time seeing folks choose a sexual orientation counter to what their own biological autonomic sexual response is. If hairy butts and penii do nothing for me, there's no set of factors that are going to make them so something for me, and vice versa. I guarantee you the folks who are gay got their first clues the same time we did, when those weird feelings came around sometime around puberty they'd never had before.
 
Just like gender, eh?

We're told that gender is a social construct, i.e. its all about nurture. Yet at the same time we're told that gays are "born that way".

This is not a contradiction.
 
Re: Just like gender, eh?

Originally posted by GMM:
We're told that gender is a social construct, i.e. its all about nurture. Yet at the same time we're told that gays are "born that way".

This is not a contradiction.
Don't get your panties in a wad.
 
oh I'll play

First, no one has said that gender is a social construct. No one.

Gender roles on the other hand is primarily a social construct. There are matriarchies all over the place both present day and in the past where women run society, where women do the fighting, or where women and men switch "traditional" gender roles.

That has little to do with biology. Those men and women aren't biologically different, their societies however obviously are.

Second, gender roles established by society are not "autonomic." Every woman is not unable to control what gender role she embraces. The sight of an apron does not generate an uncontrollable response in her body that urges her to cook and clean.
 
Re: oh I'll play

First, no one has said that gender is a social construct. No one.

You're in denial. Wymyn's studies programs in colleges all over America teach that gender is a social construct. Meaning that, except for a few body part and bodily functions, men and women are born the same. This is classic feminist belief.
 
gender

IS simply "body parts and bodily functions." Men have a wee-wee, women have breasts and a hoo-ha. Men have secondary sexual characteristics and sperm, women have ovaries and eggs. Men have testosterone, women have estrogen.

Gender roles stem from a ton more complicated things, mostly tied to individual societies and their roles for men and women.
SOME of that stems from certain biological differences in hormone levels, MOST of it does not. Women also have testosterone, and men also have estrogen in much smaller proportion, and both hormones do not simply make "men men and women women" by themselves in any manner other than the obvious "body parts and bodily functions" for the most part.

Obviously we know that estrogen and testosterone have effects on mood and emotions, and we know that other hormones, like ocytocin last longer in women than men. But these are BROAD generalized differences, they have nothing to do with women in science, men as nurses, or who's a better leader, or who is a better lawyer or pilot (women biologically do better at many of the skills needed in modern fighter pilots from vision to ability to handle G-forces).

The problem is folks like you ignorant of the science but with JUST enough knowledge to make arguments that because men have this, they are better at this, etc.
 
Re: gender

Originally posted by qazplm:
(Gender) IS simply "body parts and bodily functions."
No. This is the definition of sex.
Sex- penises, vaginas and such.
Gender- else


I didn't read this thread, but I'm going to assume it's really dumb.
 
Re: gender

Isn't it nice that we have qazplm on here? He's a true man of science, the law, and likely the arts, as well! He's a true renaissance man!
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Crap, on phone and didn't to hit post, oh well.

He has admitted, and qualified before that, they don't have a chance.

What I'm interested in, because there are probably big time law firms that eclipse the GD board working on this very issue, what he sees.

Shit family two generations ago never would have been able to comprehend Monsanto's legal rights to seed, so this notion of a for profit business claiming religious protection may not be too far down the road.
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Re: gender

Well aren't you still butthurt from the Idaho law fiasco.

This isn't rocket science so doesn't require a renaissance man.
 
Re: gender

Closely related words and the way GMM is using it...its about body parts not roles.
 
Originally posted by kescwi:
Crap, on phone and didn't to hit post, oh well.

He has admitted, and qualified before that, they don't have a chance.

What I'm interested in, because there are probably big time law firms that eclipse the GD board working on this very issue, what he sees.

Shit family two generations ago never would have been able to comprehend Monsanto's legal rights to seed, so this notion of a for profit business claiming religious protection may not be too far down the road.
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This may get long, because contrary to what some on here believe, this is a VERY narrow and nuanced issue (now irrelevant due to the facts thrown out by ecouch, but let's ignore that for academic purposes). Ignore the Ninth Circuit case, which doesn't apply to private actions. It merely states that states cannot limit the rights of gays. But anyway, the potential for a loophole (which would only apply to morons who think it's a better idea to be for-profit than non-profit (Just take a salary from the non-profit! It's how many charities have wealthy employees!)) is what is interesting. In order to fix issues, you have to be able to properly identify them, and this is a potential issue. And I think everyone can agree that, at a minimum, organizing as a for-profit potentially exposes this chapel to liability. So, that's the first step.

Ok. So, onto the chapel. For a moment, ignore the chapel as a venue. I will address that later. Instead, we need to start with the ministers of the chapel. Because this is academic, at this point, let's assume these ministers are ministers of the No Gays Allowed Church (NGAC). This religion does not recognize gay marriage. No minister of this church may be forced to marry gay couples. That should be agreed.

What product does this chapel offer? The immediate answer is "marriage." But the real answer is more narrow (and is at the crux of this entire exercise). What it actually offers is NGAC marriages. This marriage doesn't only exclude gays, it excludes anyone who is not NGAC. Gays just happen to be in that group. This would be a business that offers a religious service (odd and a little frightening, especially considering the ridiculous humanizing of corporations in Citizens United, etc.).

If this church allowed people to bring their own ministers, it would be required to accommodate every faith, including those who recognize gay marriage. They would have to allow gays to bring ministers to perform their ceremonies. This would mean that, effectively, the chapel would merely be a venue for marriages (potentially one that provides ministers, but that is irrelevant, because they would have to accommodate all faiths and groups).

If they did not allow customers to bring ministers, but provided both NGAC and Lutheran ministers, it would be required to provide a minister that would perform a gay marriage as an accommodation. In this instance, the service offered would be more broadly be defined as marriage, not merely NGAC marriage. It is far more difficult to argue that this is purely a religious service, as there are multiple denominations involved.

Going back to the first example (NGAC only, no outside ministers allowed), what accommodation would they be required to make? Their business is NGAC marriage (arguably a religious service). So, how can they offer an NGAC marriage to gays, if NGAC marriage does not allow it? If the product definition (and the only product) is so narrow as to exclude almost everyone, there is a strong argument that forcing an accommodation for gays is forcing them to offer a product that they don't offer to anyone (including heterosexuals). An analogy would be forcing a Christian bookstore to sell books about Buddhism (very very poor analogy, but this issue is so unique and so narrow that it's difficult to come up with a good one, so give it little weight).

That is the point. There is an argument that you can't actually grant any relief in this case, given the potential facts above. With the new facts provided, there is zero reason that this venue (and that is what its business is) can exclude gays, because it is not religious, merely exclusionary. That was long, and may have excluded some things I had intended to include at the beginning, but spending more time on a subject that has been rendered irrelevant isn't on my schedule for tonight.



This post was edited on 10/23 2:05 AM by beardownboiler
 
Originally posted by kescwi:
Ohh man, you're so much better than that. That's crap someone like me does, not you
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This one was too juicy . . . I mean, c'mon. He's claiming superiority (with no room for disagreement) to multiple people in multiple fields in the same thread. It was too much to leave alone.
 
Originally posted by beardownboiler:
Originally posted by kescwi:
Ohh man, you're so much better than that. That's crap someone like me does, not you
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This one was too juicy . . . I mean, c'mon. He's claiming superiority (with no room for disagreement) to multiple people in multiple fields in the same thread. It was too much to leave alone.
Another day in the life of qaz.....

He knows all, or at least thinks he does, and sits on his little self constructed pedestal and speaks down to the masses. He has to stand up to speak, because his voice gets muffled, when he sits.
 
Re: Chik-Fil-A and "No Gays Allowed"


Originally posted by boilergeek:
Chik-Fil-A is pretty open about not accepting the gay lifestyle. If it was legal to do so, I think there is a good chance they would not allow gay people to come to their stores.
Unless the people openly announced that they were gay, how would anyone in Chik-Fil-A know? Additionally, why would anyone feel compelled to announce their sexuality in a fast food restaurant, unless they had an agenda?
 
Originally posted by kescwi:
They certify the marriage for the state isn't that where the for-profit part comes into play? Kind of like a for-profit notary public saying they won't notarize, whatever, because someone is gay?

You just can't do, so their option is change the way they do business or go out of business.

We have already made for-profit corporations people, lord help us if they can find more protection by declaring themselves a religion as well.
There is a world of difference between notarizing a document and performing a marriage ceremony. You can't equate the two.
 
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