I have stayed out of this conversation because I have a son who was LOW D1 and went through the recruiting process. The difference may be that he did not have the variety of offers from great programs, but he did have an offer from Arkansas during the mid 90s. That was a very interesting situation. He had about ten offers in the fall.
I have also coached three D1 football players - one went pro (coached them in basketball), 6 D1 baseball players (two to Stanford) (coached them in basketball), three D1 golfers (again,coached basketball), four D1 softball players, and 3 players who are now head basketball coaches.
I will bottom-line this by saying two things. 1. Go where you are the most wanted. If they aren't really wanting you, don't go regardless of how much you like it there. That makes for a long four years of unhappiness. and 2. Consider the distance from your family and friends. It really does matter to most. If they can afford to be around you a lot, then this is less important. One of the football player's families rented an apartment in Lafayette. For many players, this becomes a lot more important than they thought it was when they were 18 and REALLY wanted their freedom.