Vent away! It’s tough times we live in. It’s definitely not a one size fits all here and your kids and their situations are why. I’m glad I asked. You have your hands full and then some at home and I understand your perspective.Depression issues have really came out. They've had a really strong reaction to my daughter as she has speech issues from being born with a cleft. They turned her from a very out going and social able kid to a very depressed and introverted kid because other kids can not understand her with a mask on, so she just gave up trying out of frustration, which has also effected her academically. She is rapidly falling behind in reading because she just wants to give up since people can't understand her anyways. It's all very frustrating.
My son has adhd and Asperger's, with that comes sensory issues so they are a complete distraction. He's already a social recluse do to his other issues. He's a teenager that actually has no friends, he's given up on even trying at this point and just accepted that is the way it is, but the mask are something to miss with in class and annoy him, distract him. The big mask crowd will get on him if it falls down which has almost lead to several fights as he can be a little quick tempered and impulsive due to the Asperger's.
But remember, we need to be accepting and accommodate people with issues, unless their issues don't fit into your agenda, then we must ignore those issues and force them to comply because their issues (which are actually legitimate and not politically motivated) are not important.
Yes, I am would a little tight anymore because I get it from all sides. Work has turned from really looking bright for me to a mess due to political agenda and my kids have been greatly effected by it too. Luckily the work thing may be getting taken care of as while my current employer seems to hold me being a white male against me, suddenly I am getting all kinds of calls about really good jobs that I didn't apply for and the calls are from actual companies HR departments and not the random annoying head hunter.
Sorry, sometimes I guess I just need to vent as I'm apparently as good as my kids at making friends and have no one to vent, other than my wife who has depression issues, so that's not really a good idea either.
How have masks affected your kids?!?!?! Cmon man, it’s not healthy for their developmentHow have they affected your kids? I’m genuinely asking here. My nephews don’t even flinch when they have to put their masks on for school (middle school and elementary school) and seem to be just fine. Kids are highly adaptable; it’s the adults that screw things up.
Please don’t take that as me saying I think you’re lying here, because I’m not. Everyone is different, of course. I would definitely agree that schools being closed early on hurt kids, no doubt. But thankfully most schools have been open all year.
My biggest issue personally has been the reduced interactions with people, especially from a work perspective. I used to travel quite a bit for work. Not anymore. My company just canceled our annual sales meeting slated for next month as well. It would have been the first time in two years that I’ve seen any of my co workers. I’ve worked from home for almost 15 years now, which can get really boring, but it was always offset with the travel. So now I’m looking at 3 years potentially before we all get together in some capacity. We miss out on a lot when we can’t be face to face at least a few times a year (imo).
Much simpler than writing a paragraph celebrating Joe tremendous accomplishments and congratulating him for a job well done (🙌,💪)Maybe if you use a few more emojis, though….
And as follow up as we just went back to masking in school. My son didn't even make it through first period before he had an anxiety attack over the mask. The school is working with him to get him breaks from wearing it. The principal on the phone with us and him in the room admitted they suck, he's not for them and he hates them, but we all still have to follow the rules.Vent away! It’s tough times we live in. It’s definitely not a one size fits all here and your kids and their situations are why. I’m glad I asked. You have your hands full and then some at home and I understand your perspective.
Hopefully the work situation turns for you as well. I’m thankful to work at a company that has squashed any of the political aspects of it and has focused solely on the public health part of it. Doesn’t mean everyone is happy, because we’ve also implemented some strict guidelines, but they’ve been open and transparent from the get go. If only everyone were given that. Fortunately, it’s also an employee’s market, so hopefully you can find a place that values you. It’s not worth being miserable from 9-5 lol.
Thanks for the civil conversation; much appreciated.
How many kids and what are their ages?I didn’t say that, so kindly GFY.
Sorry your son is having trouble adapting back to it. Hopefully a good compromise can be figured out for him.And as follow up as we just went back to masking in school. My son didn't even make it through first period before he had an anxiety attack over the mask. The school is working with him to get him breaks from wearing it. The principal on the phone with us and him in the room admitted they suck, he's not for them and he hates them, but we all still have to follow the rules.
Yes, all of this stuff really has a strong negative effect on kids.
And now my son is blowing up my IM. Oh the joy of this repeated stupidity of worthless policies.
You first, bone. How many? Names? Ages? SSNs?How many kids and what are their ages?
11 & 13. 5th and 8th graders.You first, bone. How many? Names? Ages? SSNs?
Sorry your son is having trouble adapting back to it. Hopefully a good compromise can be figured out for him.
Doubtful with idiots like you around. The compromise is no masks for any children, but you are still afraid and think masking kids is helpful. The virus is so harmless to children the flu killed more over the same period and no one even gets tested for the flu anymore.
Doubtful with idiots like you around. The compromise is no masks for any children, but you are still afraid and think masking kids is helpful. The virus is so harmless to children the flu killed more over the same period and no one even gets tested for the flu anymore.
This idiot was having a civil conversation and trying to understand someone else’s situation. Fukk off.
I truly feel for you here. My response was strictly to Hausta because it was entirely unprovoked and unnecessary, so please know I wasn’t talking to you.You have to excuse some, this is a really stressful situation for people involved in it. I've had to fight off a few anxiety attacks myself and our new school board president just got a really colorful email from me. He in the past has always been on our side and usually responds to my emails, but now that he's the president and has the full bulls eye on his back, be interesting if he actually responds.
I truly feel for you here. My response was strictly to Hausta because it was entirely unprovoked and unnecessary, so please know I wasn’t talking to you.
I really hope a quick solution can be found here for your son (and your family)
Exactly. Tests do nothingThe only point of all the testing is drive up statistics and further scare people. Outside of being sick enough that you need medical treatment so they need to know why you are sick so they know how to treat it, there is no point in all of these test and people constantly taking them other than to keep people scared.
This idiot was having a civil conversation and trying to understand someone else’s situation. Fukk off.
I truly feel for you here. My response was strictly to Hausta because it was entirely unprovoked and unnecessary, so please know I wasn’t talking to you.
I really hope a quick solution can be found here for your son (and your family)
Purduefan1 is very emotional, very typical of lefties and libs. He cries about putting his mom in a memory care facility and then expects everyone to feel sorry for him.You could have just ignored me, but as you confirmed, you are an idiot.